This is somewhat typical behavior of the MLCer. He figures that you are just spouting off in a rant and will calm down and everything will be okay once again. That's why we always say "actions speak louder than words".
Continue planning to move forward w/or w/o him. If he truly wants to do the hard, necessary work to win your trust and respect back, he will do it, even if it takes years from now.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
