My W had some similar comments/statements .... like she was looking for me to be that 'good time guy' she had during the A. There was a good deal of "you are no fun, so serious all the time" "Just smile more" type comments. Like you ... not my job to be something/someone I am not, I did get to a point I let her know maybe she could find that elsewhere but I was not her personal circus monkey that was going to dance for a quarter.
Keep GALing ... PMA .. just do what you have been doing. You are doing well.
