She was talking about the trip and I told her that with things the way they are between us I didn't want to make any long-term travel plans. Her response was that we didn't have to book anything right away.
For her, she needs something to look forward to, and she hopes that a family trip would help us create happy memories and bind us together. All well and good, but I asked her what smaller things we would do in the meantime (this trip would be at least a year off) to rebuild our bond. Her answer was "I'm throwing that in your court".
Wrong answer.
It's not my responsibility to come up with things to make her happy, and to make her feel connected to me. We both screwed our marriage up, so it's up to both of us to take action to improve our lives, separately and together.
I have specific GAL things that I'm doing. To her credit she's starting to find some things too.
It still sounds to me like she expects me to do something that makes her happy and makes her fall back in love with me.
I can't for the life of me figure out where she really is. What am I missing here?
Ex Rzrback Me 43 Her 44 D11, D15 T21, M19 BD 9/9/2014 Piecing
Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood
