I've read the 37. I also noticed in the comments of that post, one poster says if you are no longer living under the same roof, go dark? What is going dark?
Going dark is pretty much avoiding all contact, no face to face, no TM, no calls, no emails ... with kids its impossible so some of adopted 'dim'
Do not initiate any contact, let him contact you, reply in kind but always be the one who ends the conversation like you have something pressing to do.
