Greetings. I screwed up again. My wife was to pick me up at the airport with the kids tonight. Well she pulled a fast one and I know that she is being guided by her mom who doesn't like me. What she did was take my car and leave it at the airport so that she can continue to detach. She said that just didn't want to see me and that it was not good for the kids and myself to get mislead since she and they are transitioning into a different life away from me.
I am having a hard time detatching myself. I can tell myself all day that she wants and needs her space I say ok and that that I will support her. I also know that I need to GAL as well, but when I talk to me kids and and hear her voice everything goes out the window.
It hurts. My friends and family say forget it...get yourself together and love yourself and your kids and to forget about being with her and move on. So, I say to myself, ok I will do that. I don't want to me move on w/o her as my wife and the kids not living with me.
I need help in understanding this. I did get Divorce Remedy and am going through it.
