Hi Pink. You are doing the right thing for H. I know I have been like a broken record about your H realising what he's done but reading your posts the last few months I think it's very clear he's lost and it's now hitting him what he's losing.
Depression is a very sly illness and creeps up on people so a lot the time they don't recognise it until it' has them in its grip.
You cannot do this alone Pink , H's family must be involved When you have your talk with him please try to have another member of his family with you. This man needs help and you are a fantastic lady to stand by him
Pink. Please take the next words as I mean them , Your H is a big boy , he needs help and you have stood by him through all this and your there for him again BUT you can only do so much , H has to help himself also If he doesn't get help after all this , you cannot be responsible for his actions Pink is doing all she can and we all see that. H needs professional help and only H can accept this help
Im so sorry for you and your boys going through this and seeing their dad in this way Please take care of yourself and them at this really tough time
I hope for your family this is a turning point for H and he gets the help to bring him back to the real world
My thoughts are with you and your boys at this time and I'm sending positive thoughts to your H
