Walk away wife and my journey

[ATPeace]

Does it make it any easier to detach I do not think so I still love her and having her detach from me is so painful

She said she just has not got those feelings for any longer

Her words ...you still are not listening to me .....we are over you have to move on

She says that she does love me but not in that way she loves me like a friend

I said 6 months ago you did love me and you could tell me you loved me now you don't love me and feel different where might you be in a further 6 months and she said I will not change my mind is made up.

I want to cohabit as I feel this is best for the kids but she said how can it be best for the kids seeing their parents screwed up

I am pretty sure She will still cohabit as for how long I really do not know

I do not want to downscale to a smaller property in a crap area the kids will miss out .

We talked some more she said she is not looking for someone else she just does not want to rely on anyone else

She said she is not looking too D as she really does not want another man in her live and whilst we are M she has no intention on cheating or being unfaithful.

She said we have a new kind of relationship but it will be one without intamacy one where I have to let her go out and do the things that she wants to do clubbing and going out with her friends we can still do things as a family she will sleep in her room downstairs and I will stay in the main bedroom

I do not have any ideas how long she wil do this for our youngest child is 2 and our oldest is nearly 17

She knows I will be arround to do things for our children and be arround to babysit if she wants to go out I guess if I make things difficult then she will sell the house

My oldest daughter is old enough to babysit if I was not arround to do so

She will not go and talk to anyone about this