Walkaway wife

[jjal]

I have Divorce Remedy and Divorce Busting books, reading them both. 1/2 way in both, good stuff, last resort has been best so far, and best for my sanity. Easily moved me into the depressed/denial/devastating stage to angry as hell stage. But also I have been getting out and seeing people, doing things, being me again. And I have read and re-read the links in Cadet's post over the past week or so. Been doing my homework.

ILYNOT - don't want a D, for sure. But, I hate being on a rollercoaster. Wasn't raised to prolong misery in anything, rip that band-aid off fast!

3rd counseling session for me tomorrow, 2nd for her.

Had dinner with a co-worker/friend who noticed change in my wife last 2 nights who had same thing happen to him 7-8 years ago and he's been a great sounding board.