It is just a hiccup. You are still early on in this race. Of course, she hasn't changed her feelings so soon. If she goes out Saturday, you make plans on Friday, depending on your childcare situation. You work on the being the best dad you can be. You are allowed to have some moments of weakness! I know I have. Now that you know where she stands, does it make it easier for you to detach? You cannot bring up the relationship again. She may move out. You have to accept that as a future possibility and prepare your mind for it. Have you looked into talking to a counselor for yourself? I am on some anti-anxiety medication that has helped me cope.


Me: 33 W: 30
T - 12 M - 3
K - 0
BD - 6/14/15
Moved out - 6/14/15