So we have separated but what should that look like
Ok we no longer have sex
We sleep in separate beds
She says that my needs no longer come before her needs
All the intamacy has gone

We are both theese for the kids

Today I think I am doing way too much for her

Went with her to purchase sofabed

I helped her carry and set up a big sofa bed and carry it into her room

Sometimes it just feels like everything is good we are getting on so well

I so need to get going with moving on if she is so sure that things cannot change then perhaps it really is time to move on....I know I do not want to but cannot see a way to be back its her other than in th relationship that we have now as two separated people living together in the same house with no intermacy for ever

thanks and sorry for screwing things up

Last edited by Ghost56; 07/23/15 11:32 PM.

Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.