Cadet, no it is not my real name. My H knows I'm on a support board on line, but has never asked about it and knows nothing about what we do on here. I brought it up to him this past Tuesday and asked if he wanted to read my threads. His response was, "Why would I want to do that? It's your space to feel better and vent. If you want me to read something, I will, but otherwise it would be like if you were an alcoholic and I went to your AA meeting."
It made me feel better. but then I remember the not believing anything they say. Oh well.
So on Monday, I'll be away for a week, which is the start of my new job. So, the changes are starting to happen. I hope I weather them well.
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out
His response was, "Why would I want to do that? It's your space to feel better and vent. If you want me to read something, I will, but otherwise it would be like if you were an alcoholic and I went to your AA meeting."
It made me feel better. but then I remember the not believing anything they say. Oh well.
Maybe for the moment you can believe that he is not snooping on you, IMHO.
Glad that is not your real name.
I think you should just use some normal precautions but it sounds like you should be fine.
I bet you'll do fine on the start of your new job. Good luck!
I'm heading out to meet up with my children for my b-day.
{Hugs}
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
Good luck at your new job Eirinn! That's a big change in itself so try to stop every once in a while and take some deep breaths, your CNS will thank you!
Big hug,
PP
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
PP, thanks! I haven't had a full time job, other than raising my child, since 6/2011. I will continue to take one step at a time. Only way I can, right?
E
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out
