Need advice for a WW who left

[dwh15]

Thank you V. So I contacted attorney and confirmed that legally, I can keep WW out of the house. I'm the only one on the deed, and she left months ago and changed her mailing address. He said she may call the police but just to explain the situation and they would ask her to leave. I'm hoping it doesn't get that dramatic but prepared for anything.

Last I heard, she was driving back into town to talk with OM, so my guess is that they patch things up, at least temporarily. I'll know more in a few hours. I've decided I can't let her come back home, regardless of what happens today. She's not anywhere close to the right mindset, and it's not fair to me or the kids to have to deal with her drama. Her sister offered her a place to stay, and even though it's 2 hours away, that might be for the best right now. We can work out something on visitation with the kids. The rest she has to figure out on her own. I really wish things were different but I think the best way for me to help her and my family right now is to not help her. She needs to bottom out. Wish me luck.