That was a real kicker with the anniv. Did you get any response from W? Was your S with you? Realise your going to be feeling rough. I think a GAL activity might be good for you this weekend.
Hope you're feeling better, anyway. I know my sitch doesn't seem as drastic at the moment (she's got to return, yet), so I hope you don't feel like the 'improvement' is having ill effects on you. I hope I don't come across as rubbing you up the wrong way.
Heartily recommend a trip to Brighton with your S though. Plenty to do and a frequent flight package from Glasgow/Edinburgh to Gatwick means you can be there in 90 minutes.
Hoping you start to feel better soon!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015