I am in no way minimising it believe you me. Thank you for the advice Toots.


It is the single biggest obstacle that is standing in my way, it is constantly on her mind, and have been in IC with my pastor, working on how to help reassure her, how to make sure that i wont do it again, well until he went into hospital with brain tumor.

All if it revolves around it right now. That will take time for her, to decide if she can even trust, or believe in me again.

Me:35 W:37; S17 D15 D15 D1 D1
M:9 years T:11
BD 5/2/15
W moved out with her D15 our D1 D1 6/15/16
W filed for divorce 6/19/15
W moved back in 7/11/15