There are some similarity to your husband. Yours is not there physically mine was there physically but not always emotionally. I definitely do see signs of narcissism in line. He can be cold and distant on purpose to make me mad. Its not a good feeling no reason to deal with and then being codependent myself makes for a bad combo. My H is very involved with my kids which is nice. I cannot imagine and you having to deal with everything on your own including a move. Hang in there I finally had to decide to move on and better my life for myself and my children. I jumped back in my career and now I'm making a better life with more money then I made previously. Just being independent and having my own money, help with my self esteem. We are beat down for so long its hard to see the light at the end. I can't imagine you having to deal with your H coming home every so often.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
