Cadet, no it is not my real name. My H knows I'm on a support board on line, but has never asked about it and knows nothing about what we do on here. I brought it up to him this past Tuesday and asked if he wanted to read my threads. His response was, "Why would I want to do that? It's your space to feel better and vent. If you want me to read something, I will, but otherwise it would be like if you were an alcoholic and I went to your AA meeting."

It made me feel better. but then I remember the not believing anything they say. Oh well.

So on Monday, I'll be away for a week, which is the start of my new job. So, the changes are starting to happen. I hope I weather them well.


M 46 / H 43
T 24/M 18
S 4
11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY
1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom
1/8/2016 H moved out