He works 8 more hours than I do but I make .82 more than him so we make the same! I do not usually pick up hours but he has spent to much this month and now we are behind 150$ plus what we spend tonight racing! As for work he asked me to do...yes I do all of it usually! He washes laundry and puts light stuff in dryer I hang it out and girls and I put it away its a control thing he has no idea who's clothes are whose! They all wear about the same size so if he puts it away wrong they whine at me so it's easier if I just do it! That has always been my preference he wash dry I hang out out away! I always take care of bills accounts paperwork (insurance daycare assistance thank you cards ect) as for house chores when he was not working going to school he took care of the majority now that he is working and racing he does very little inside but does take care of cars (he has a mechanics degree) so he does all car maintance takes kids to daycare before work mows lawn/outside maintance and racecar (which is a chore to him and I agree if we r spending that mi h to race it needs maintained motor cost 4000) so during race season he does not so much inside but once winter comes he helps! I do most cleaning dishes and take care of kids/bills parent communication paperwork! I guess to a point it's "fair"! He is missing work today to go with OW to fair so 8 hours covers wat he will miss 8 will be overtime that's what bothers me is im working extra so he can go out but if I don't we won't be able to pay bills!