I will also add just to clarify, in my case I am unaware of an A. That would be devastating! This is all nothing but my personal view on things and how I would see them. My XF claims to just need time and space to figure out life... I hope with all my soul that is all it is and she picks me when she gets back on track.
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home