Here is the link about help for a LBH who has a WW. It leads to about three threads. Please read it. Some replies from others may have gotten off the subject a bit, but if you will read my posts, I think many of your questions may be answered in that first thread.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2545554#Post2545554

You may have to go to the library, or some private place, to finish reading the book.



It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!