Great post by lovethehub, so good I copied it to my thread to reread later. Without hijacking this thread I would be interested in lovethehubs thoughts etc on what she thinks would help lbs to break through the emotional walls due to built up resentment after years of unmet needs? What comes across as sincere/real?
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together