Ghost you are falling into the same trap I did recently. You CANNOT date you wife while trying to detach. I learned that the hard way. I dated my wife for two weeks then she pulled the "friend card" on me. And just to note, I thought my dinner dates went really well too. She was even initiating hugs and kisses! This is for much later when the relationship is better. A few dates with you is not going to cause her to have an epiphany all of a sudden. It took her a long time to get to this mind state. It will take a long time for her to get out of it. Stick to your guns, do not ask her out for another date.


Me: 33 W: 30
T - 12 M - 3
K - 0
BD - 6/14/15
Moved out - 6/14/15