She's living with her parents and I would be shocked if her dad wasn't doing the things I used to do for her here. The little things. And she has people to talk to and get advice from or to validate her decisions.
I loved living so close to my in laws but now it seems like a curse. She can run there and have all of her needs met. Thus why she doesn't even notice that i'm not contacting her at all anymore (aside from practical issues with our girls). This makes a 180 of no contact seem particularly ineffective.
We used to talk all the time.
My God how long will it take to stop thinking like this?
Can't I get 'detachment' in pill form? It would be so much easier!
Last edited by 714Dad; 07/23/1505:32 AM.
M36,W34 T18 years M9 years D3,D6 W "doesn't want to be married anymore"6/14/15 ILYBNILWY6/2015 W moves to parents house 6/30/15 W removes wedding band 7/3/15 My ring back on 8/8/15 Served 8/11/2015.
