As a mother I will never understand that. I would have walked over hot coals to get to my hurting child. *hugs* Let this sink in and don't confront her.... Don't really know what advice to give you....any vets still awake? Just know that I feel for you.
As a father that has known her for 10 years you said it exactly, she would have done ANYTHING for our son or my 2 stepkids. Now...who is she?????
I want to confront her so bad but what good will that do? wake the kids up freak them out? I know I'm not going to do it but I'm printing all things now and goign to lawyer on Friday I think. If nothing else just to see what the heck I need to do next