One last quick update. She texted me to say she made it OK to the friends house, which is around 2 hours away. I replied that I was glad she made it and reminded her she was not alone. I said we would figure something out. Then I told her to try and have a good night. She replied with an "I love u" and "It means ALOT". I don't read anything into it, other than she's scared to death and extremely emotional right now. I really don't know best way to proceed. It would have been so much easier if she had shown even an ounce of remorse, but I don't see anything other than sadness over the A ending.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.