Thanks for the replies. It's not that I don't want WW home, but I know that right now, her mind is on OM. She's heart broken, and I can hear it in her voice. I can hear the pain. Funny, I thought I would be glad when this day came. Instead, I'm just sad. I care for her and hate to see her hurting. I'm under no illusion that she moves home and all is restored. Given any other reasonable alternative, I don't want her back in the house. I think it's unfair to the children and extremely unfair to me. We have enough space that she can sleep in a separate room, but that would make life extremely uncomfortable, and I'm worried would set all of us up for new heartbreak all over again, especially the kids. I can't even be sure that she wouldn't want to continue to pursuit the R with OM. It's obvious that she still has very strong feelings towards him, and he is the one putting on the brakes. I'll check with my attorney in the morning but I'm really hoping another solution presents itsself. I don't want her here but I don't want to have to be the one who tells her NO either.
Last edited by dwh15; 07/23/1503:48 AM.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.