Hanging in there

[jedi]

P,

Hang in there. Only you can decide if and/or when this is too painful to continue.

Having said that, let's pretend for a minute that you decide today is that day. For argument sake, you file and finalize your D in 24 hours.

Once this is all over, D is final, does it actually change anything for you?

My guess is it will still be just as painful for you. You mention at the beginning of this post GAL is going well, but what exactly is that for you? I hear a lot of you doing things for H in this post above, and not a lot of you doing things for P.

I think you need to give some solid headspace to how you can begin to detach, and once you start to do this things will get easier, I promise.