Thanks Job- small company so no benefits yet. They are growing so hopefully soon. But they are willing to train me in an area that is fairly marketable. I could do this, take a few classes to boot and then find a better opportunity if company doesn't grow. They are nice people, too. I need that now. I need a calm work environment.

My FIL lost it all too. No relationship with anyone. Never invested in a single person other than himself. Moved on to third woman, maybe 4th. Never divorced 2nd wife. Latest news he has for his sons: he has moved on and is dating a 20 year old nude model!

My S12 overheard us talking about it and said "yeah right, let's see him produce her." Out of the mouth of babes ...

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced