Congratulations on the full time work! This is a huge ego boost right along w/more money in your pocket. How are the health benefits?
As for your h...leave him in the oven...he needs to definitely bake a while longer.
You'll get the hang of detaching and not taking the bait. The more you read and see what your h is doing, the more you'll understand why it's important to detach.
As for the gold fish guy...he lost everything in the end. His former wife has gone on and done quite well for herself and his children have grown up and are happy.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
