Thank you Job. Family of origin issues for H: his F lived lived like goldfish guy for FOREVER.

I am done initiating talk about the R for quite some time. He needs to bake in the crazy MLC oven and I need to work on me/detach and parent my kids. I will not be I got up the apt for issue again nor will I help him make a decision. And one other valuable lesson I took from this: I will not take the bait on his next passive aggressive comments again. Learned that from his complaining about prison bedroom.

My company offered me full time work! I took that so I can stand on my own two feet. Big ego boost as they courted me for specific role. Much needed GAL goal I had.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced