Originally Posted By: sandi2

Have you read the threads on help for the newcomer LBH who has a WW? If not, I hope you will take the time to read it. I came here eight years ago as a wayward wife. I am still with my H and not only was my M saved, but so was I. Although my heart can feel for your W, I also know the dark side she may be going down. You will not recognize her. I'm so sorry. This board can help you as you make this journey. If it can help a WW like me, who wasn't wanting to stay in her M......it can certainly help someone who does.

Take a long, deep breath, and hang on tight.



Sandi may I ask you if you are religious? From remembering your story I do believe you are...

Today my WW made the comment that the harder she tried to do the right thing the harder Satan worked on her until finally she gave in and didn't care anymore. (Sounded like an admission to me)

She then said rambled about it being my fault for being mean to her and that she is trying to find her way back but that she definitely doesn't want to be married to me. The more I brought up religion and not giving into what Satan wants, the angrier she got with me. Probably the angriest I've heard her in months.


BD Oct 2014
S Dec 2014
D filed Feb 20, 2015
D on hold as money ran out for attorneys and the marital home's future is up in the air

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