This is an interesting discussion, I too wish H was seeing anyone else apart from ow, I would even prefer him to be dating several others. And I totally agree raliced, it's the whole getting involved with a married man thing, and helping to get him away from his family.
I also sympathise with not knowing what's going on in his life, it's like that for me too and I hate how it feels like I'm in a goldfish bowl where he gets to find out what's happening with me.
You've had such a difficult time raliced I'm glad you've got lots of exciting projects coming up to keep you focused. I rarely post here but I do catch up with everyone's threads especially the ones who joined db around the same time as myself. Take care x
Me - 44 Husband - 47 D20, S18 BD - Aug 2013 Moved out - Jan 2014 OW discovered Jan 2014