Until you start becoming a bit more independent, stop pursuing ... stop reading into what a friends of a WAW is posting on her own FB page and attempting to read your own sitch into it ... till you have plans because your GAL that you SHOULD be doing rather than appearing available to your WAS .... you will remain just as you are .. no growth ... no movement. Again, your choice here.
By going to dinner you are showing your hand a bit "Hey I have no life to her than with you so sure I am open to last minute dinner plans" By standing up and telling her the truth "Ya know tonight really is not good for me, maybe another time" you will start showing her the backbone that you are currently working on. No need for an explanation, leave it at that and YOU end the conversation .... but you were also nice and left the door cracked for another time.
