What do you think will do more damage, you making a story up to back out of it or going and asking too much?

Why do you need to make up a story to get out of it. If you don't want to go just say you're not really up for going out to dinner. If you do go just keep your mouth shut and don't ask any R questions, STFU smoothies.

In the future YOU don't suggest doing anything together. All of this could have been avoided if you weren't pursuing, so learn from it and keep moving forward. There is a time and place for everything, sometime in the future you can invite her along for something with the kids but right now is not that time. If SHE suggests you do something together you can accept some, not all invites, but only if you can keep your mouth shut during them.

Last edited by Fogg; 07/22/15 05:08 PM.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be