Dejavu2. Thank you. Yes, codependency and alcoholism is a big problem for me. Codependency for me alcoholism for the men in my life. My father and now my second husband. My first husband didn't drink now looking back besides his cheating lol he was the best for me . however, he to last for another woman after 11 years. I am now learning a lot about codependency and why I stay. My parents were divorced wnen i was 9 I did not care if my dad left because he too was mean and drank. And now I have that with my stbx. I just don't like losing people in my life I moved a lot went to nine schools. It's an issue for me. And it's hard for me to get close to people and especially now when I know they can leave. But I'm working through that and a lot of people say I need to go out and date which I have but I seem to be very picky which I don't know is a bad thing. I think it's just my way of not falling for the wrong person I don't know? Or I'm still hanging on to my ex that could be the reason too? I will read up on you too Thank you!
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M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
. however, he to last for another woman after 11 years.
