One of her friends recently separated from her husband
She is a spiritualist and every day she is posting several posts on FaceBook relating to inspirantal words
Eg She posted a picture with the words One day she realised she could not please everyone So,she gave up trying and decided to be herself Weather other people liked it or not was not her business
And
Sometimes you have to do what is best for you and your life Not what's best for everybody else's
And
You are never too old to set another goal or dream another dream
And It's ok to live a life others do not understand
I think her friend is trying to influence or get into my wife's mind but I do not think there is anything I can do
Do I ignore it or mention it
Is this something I should be concerned with
Do I sound pathetic ?
Thanks in advance
Gary
Me:48 W 41 M:18 T:26 2 D 18 & 4 2 S 17 & 13 Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation D filed 06/17 Separate houses 10/17 D Final 29/12//17.
Ghost, delete any and all of her friends off of FB. Believe me, it will only make things better. Once I removed my WW, her friends, her family (except my in-laws and her brother), I didn't dread going on FB.
Me: 38 W: 32 S10 D6 T: 10 (02/2004) M: 7 (12/2007) Separation 02/2015 OM confirmed 01/2015, D mentioned 12/2014 D finalized 9/2016
It's nothing you can control so ignore it. You shouldn't be mentioning anything to her right now.
No, you don't sound pathetic. Your just trying to find a reason why she's leaving you, it's not because of her friend. It's because of the issues in your M and her CHOICE thinking the grass is greener which may be influenced by the friend.
The friend might not be intentionally trying to get in her head but since she's living the great single life up right now W likely likely sees that. Doesn't mean it will last.
Over thinking her friends or W's FB posts is a great way to go insane also.
Last edited by Fogg; 07/22/1503:20 PM.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
I know exactly what I would want to do, but I would believe it would be best to be busy?
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
Maybe something like "tonight isn't good for me, maybe check back next week."? I'll let some others chime in... Don't go on my word please
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
Can you work late? Something popped up? I don't know, I forgot that you still live together when I said that...
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
