At BD when H asked for apartment & to come back and stay here a few days, I said no outright. He got flustered and then said "then I really am trapped." I said:no you have choices.
This time he asked for the same thing but he will do whichever I choose. How infantile is that? Prefers apartment and to come here a few days (who wouldn't) but feels it's unfair he has to live in his room.
I have to vent: I cannot believe this is my life!
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
