It is great that your W can say to you she wants to be more loving/initiating etc. We all know not to put stock on what is said but still she has said it a few times.
Regardless of the final outcome you are enjoying a better M than you were. There is LM, talking, validating and fun and most importantly some is nitiaed by w.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together