Funny how when I was waiting for approval, I saw this list in someone elses post and read them all.

I do have one big question, and it may be answered in the books that I will reread this weekend.

It says believe nothing of what they say and only half of what they do. I realize now they really can't tell the truth or they believe what they say is the truth. My H has said things that are out of the ordinary and they have to do with him coming home. Is that something I should file away in the back of my mind for now or completely ignore until he and the OW are done? I know nothing can happen until she is gone.


Me 44
H 46
3 DD 22, 18, 15
1 DS 2.5
M 10/1992
BD1 2/2014 BD 2 7/19/2014
Moved in with OW 7/20/2014

My fight song "roar"