Or maybe he is just really on H's side and thinks I deserve to be cheated on and yelled at? How do I know? Every time I leave there I feel worse. And for me, the worst part is that every time I leave there I know H goes and reports back to his parents that MC said I am controlling, or MC agreed he deserved his affair, etc. And then they tell me how terrible I am. So I feel like H, the MC, and the inlaws are all ganging up on me.
P, This sounds terrible. No one, you included, deserves to be cheated on. Stop that line of thinking right now, it leads nowhere.
I really cannot say as I'm not this person, but this doesn't sound like a pro marriage / solution based MC to me. IMO, you should both leave MC feeling better, maybe even optimistic about the future of your M. I'm not saying it should be easy, but what you describe sounds totally one sided.
I still think you need to seek an alternative MC.
Me:36 W:30 M:2.75 T:7 BD: 4/2015 ILYBNILWY: 5/2015 W Moved Out: 5/2015 W filed for D: 7/2015
