Hey U,

Just reading last post...teflon needed indeed! I'm feeling defensive for you, not a helpful comment I know. But true all the same!

I'm sitting here wondering where things are at with the house and this in house separation coming to an end.

I feel like it's time for a reprieve for you and your children, but more YOU at the moment from this behaviour from wife. It sounds to me that neither of you can sustain the current living arrangement much longer, and quite frankly why should you have to.

I'm excited to hear you talking about a future...it's there for you, lovely U. It really is! Reach for it, your future looks mighty fine from where I'm sitting. Women on this planet are looking for a man just like you! And the right woman will realise just how lucky she is


JBxxx

Ps I struggle with the words thing too. It's the introvert in me, needing to order all the detail and nuance that goes on in my head. I envy those posters here who are so articulate and express things so simply but with emotion. Ah something to aspire to.

That brings me to needing to respond to yours and Lady V's post on my thread lol