Starsky, I'm in California. Oct 22 would have been 10 years for us. So it can be considered long term.

And I have no family attorney. As mentioned I didn't work aside from some substitute teaching, and so i don't have the financial wherewithal to hire a lawyer.

I started going to "the third option" tonight. I'll try to stay in it just to figure out how to better talk to my girls and such.

This whole situation is so much crap.

And as for A, I don't know what to think or to do. So much of her comments have been MLC sounding or A sounding, but again, it's so hard to fathom that she'd risk it with our two girls in the picture. But I know I know, anything is possible.

Well, now i'm wide awake with adrenaline, so thanks a lot guys!

M36,W34
T18 years
M9 years
D3,D6
W "doesn't want to be married anymore"6/14/15
ILYBNILWY6/2015
W moves to parents house 6/30/15
W removes wedding band 7/3/15
My ring back on 8/8/15
Served 8/11/2015.