Twice today H mentioned that he is miserable in the downstairs room. (Third time this week he said this.). He said there are prison cells that are nicer than the room! (It took A LOT for me not to remind him that he moved out all on his own--self inflicted sentence.) Now he is throwing down the victim card masterfully.
Then later today he mentioned that the reason he has to get out of the house is because he hates that room! Again- his choice to live in a closet sized room!
I stayed completely silent. Any advice on what to say if he hammers the point again? I guess I could say "I am sorry you aren't happy there anymore." Thoughts?
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced