Oh Jeff. I feel your pain man. I went through the exact same BS for months before I drew the line. Yes, she'll be nice and friendly as long as she is getting her way. As soon as you don't cooperate, the horns come out. And then when she realizes that won't work, she'll go dark for a couple of days, then come around real nice again, maybe even nicer than before, and act like nothing is wrong. My own WW is still pulling it. She alternates between all smiles and being royally pissed, depending on how much she is getting her way any given day.

All I can say is know your boundaries and define them very clearly with her. DO NOT back down because she gets pissy. That just sets you up for the next time she wants something. She expects that you're going to give in. Show her you are not a doormat. Sure, she's gonna be mad, but you know what? She'll also secretly respect you. Hang in there brother.


Me 47 W 42
T 24 yrs M 18 yrs
W living with OM
BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1)
BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out)
WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015.
Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.