Met with therapist tonight. She said that I need to feel comfortable telling my wife what I want. It should not have been a revelation but it was. I am always too concerned with everyone else feelings. And that can be unattractive. So I called my wife and told her what I want in regards to custody of s13. We have been unable to reach agreement on the issue. I was surprised at how well she responded to it. I think it has always been the case that I was just too non-confrontational.


M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.