It's amazing how close are stories are. I've been married 18 years, we have 6 children, but I too was verbally and emotionally abusive and my WW has found comfort in the arms of another man that is providing her with all her emotional needs. I'm just sick about it all.. I feel for you. I don't know how you can handle seeing the OM. My W told me today that I will never be allowed to speak to or approach her OM. She defends him.. Over her husband?! It's the most painful thing in the world...
I unfortunately am not doing well with any sort of 180... I was good for about a week and then I crumbled. I am not strong. So I admire your strength in being able to make your life better and change around your behavior.
I will be following your story more closely now. Good luck to you friend and God bless you.
BD Oct 2014 S Dec 2014 D filed Feb 20, 2015 D on hold as money ran out for attorneys and the marital home's future is up in the air
