You are doing great with the kids, house, weight loss, etc. What could you do to change the dynamics in the relationship with your W, if she is no longer interested in a M with you? I hope you will understand what I am going to say. I have seen hundreds of LBH'S work themselves into the ground, trying to become who he thinks his W wants. Then he is crushed when she doesn't respond the way he had hoped. That's b/c he missed the main ingredient.........attraction. I admire you working on losing weight, b/c I know how tough it can be. That is a good place to start in the attraction department. Are you working out, too? Have you had a chance to update your wardrobe, if needed? Trying to be all things to everyone is very time consuming, isn't it?
What was there about you that attracted her when you first stated dating?
I guess the thing that attracted her to me was that she had come from a home where she had not had the love that she desired I came along and took the pain away by being there for her loving her and showing her that nothing was too much trouble
I have a great sence of humour and am very quick witted and I guess she liked that I was fun to be with
Me:48 W 41 M:18 T:26 2 D 18 & 4 2 S 17 & 13 Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation D filed 06/17 Separate houses 10/17 D Final 29/12//17.
