Keep it simple and on target. Do not bring up the possibility of the ow. You want to know where his head is right now w/respect to your relationship. If this is another "let's try again to see if it works this time", then you'll know it's not an authentic reconcilation, but one that suits his needs a this time.
He needs to do the hard and difficult work to win you back. If you allow him to return w/o doing the work, he'll be at it again because he knows that you'll take him back no matter what he does and he'll never face the consequences of his actions and why would he? Again, he's getting the milk for free...why purchase the cow?
Stay calm, keep your voice tone even and look him in the eye. Stay on target of what you want to talk about and do not allow him to goad you into an emotional heated argument.
He owes you respect, loyalty and yes, honesty. Has he been doing those three things lately?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
