Originally Posted By: WhyUs
...You need to make sure you are not being used as the "friend." That allows her to cake eat and you will never really move forward...


Very wise words WhyUs.

Sandi's thread might give some ideas for how to test this or maybe one of the vets has some words of wisdom?

Is it time for some boundaries to be defined? If there's any negative reaction to them, then maybe it's an indicator that cake eating is prevalent?

Last edited by Beagley; 07/21/15 10:36 PM.

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