A new thread - My W's OW, the Predator

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Okay... I'm back... but it's because I am hoping for some guidance from the group...

I've been away from the house since Sunday afternoon, when the above incident happened. As I hung up I said, "Have a good week," insinuating there'd be no more contact this week.

Apparently, my W stayed at the house last night instead of with the OW. She called my cell while I was at work about four hours ago and left the following message:

"Hi, it's me.. I'm just calling to check in, see how you're doing, how your new job is going. I didn't see you last night at the house, so I'm wondering if everything is alright. Give me a call, thanks, bye."

So... what's up with that, do you think?

I do not want to give her a call. But it's not like me not to respond somehow. What's the best DB action? Should I text? And text what? I'm thinking, "Thanks for checking, all is well. Hope you're having a good week."

Thanks for any input... I am posting and asking and then going back to not thinking about her again until I check later for hopefully some responses. It's been good for me to do that. I'm definitely feeling a deeper level of sadness with no contact, but I think it's a sadness I need to go through and emerge stronger on the other side...