First let me say that I'm so sorry for the situation you are in.
You have a lot of really good questions regarding detaching and not wanting the 180 to backfire. Has the 180/no contact been for 1 week while he is away?
It would be extremely helpful to know what your next move should be. Please call me to discuss our program at 303-444-7004.
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